Getting Married In... Munich!

Here's the first of a regular Getting married in: series where I'll be posting about various destination wedding locations around the world. Perhaps you'll find a post about a location not too far from you, or on the other side of the globe. I'll be sure to include as much information as possible about local culture, wedding customs, venues, romantic places to stay, what to eat and more! 

Neuschwanstein Castle

Munich is the capital of Bavaria, one of Germany’s most charming provinces located in the south east corner of the country. One of the biggest draw-cards to the region is the famous Neuschwanstein Castle, the inspiration behind Disney’s Sleeping Beauty Castle. Built in 1869 by then King Ludwig II of Bavaria, the castle is easily accessible from the city of Munich in a day trip by car, train or bus tour. Although you can’t marry at the castle, it makes a beautiful backdrop for your post-wedding photography, or you can take a guided tour of this magnificent castle for a fascinating pre or post-wedding activity. When visiting the Castle, be sure to grab a serving of fresh cream cheese balls (3 balls for 2 euro) from the stall in front of Zur-Neven-Burg restaurant near the top of the hill - divine!

From the town of Hohenschwangau below, you can take a rustic horse and carriage ride right up to the castle passing through the surrounding forest with glimpses across the valley back to Ludwig’s childhood castle, Hohenschwangau Castle and the spectacular snow-capped mountains and lakes that surround. Close to the Bavarian-Austrian border, the entire region is watched over by the spectacular Alps which can only be described as breathtaking. What  better setting for a destination wedding?


Where to stay
By far the most desirable location to stay while visiting Munich is the Hotel Königshof, one of four hotels owned by the family-run Geisel Hotel group. The group’s luxurious Hotel Königshof provides commanding views of the old city and features its own Michelin Star restaurant. The Hotel Königshof also enjoys a premium location right near the Central train station making it an ideal base for exploring everything the city and surrounding region has to offer.

Hotel Königshof, Munich - Images courtesy of Geisel Privathotels

The Hotel Königshof is experienced in hosting weddings from the most intimate elopement for two, through to the most extravagant celebration for up to 180 guests. Staff from the hotel can help you create a wedding to remember from start to finish or if you prefer, can arrange certain elements as requested. With five banquet and function rooms to choose from, the hotel’s experienced, dedicated staff are able to design an event that will inspire fond memories for years to come. 

Justizpalast (Palace of Justice), Munich

Some of The Hotel Königshof’s rooms overlook the beautiful neo-Baroque Justizpalast (Palace of Justice) which is just across the street, another great backdrop for pre or post wedding photos. One of the Hotel Königshof's special features is its Michelin star restaurant and impressive wine cellar perfect for hosting your special event breakfasts, lunches, dinners or drinks. The hotel is also within easy walking distance of Marienplatz and the impressive gothic architecture of Neues Rathaus (New Town Hall) famous for its Glockenspiel clock tower which puts on a captivating show daily at 11 a.m. (as well as 12 noon and 5 p.m. during the summer months).


In addition to the Hotel Königshof, the Geisel Group also owns/runs the Bavarian Hotel Excelsior, and the funky designer anna hotel both of which are located just down the street making them equally accessible to the old town.

anna hotel, Munich - Images courtesy of Geisel Privathotels

The anna hotel's tower suite provides sumptuous accommodation for wedding couples with it's unparalleled views of the old city skyline and spacious, ultra modern facilities including a full size flat screen TV at the bathtub.

Hotel Excelsior, Munich - Images courtesy of Geisel Privathotels

At the Hotel Excelsior, you'll find a fantastic rustic vinothek and restaurant along with a demonstration kitchen big enough to host a pre or post wedding cooking demonstration/class. The demonstration kitchen can host up to 40 people for a fun and memorable experience where you can learn to prepare Mediterranean cuisine from a top chef and enjoy the fruits of your culinary labour afterwards - Guten Appetit!


Wedding venues

The most popular wedding ceremony venues in and around Munich are the many beautiful churches including the landmark, twin-towered Frauenkirche (Cathedral of Our Lady), eclectic Peterskirche (St Peter’s Church), baroque Theatinerkirche (Church of the Theatines) and the spectacular Roccoco styled Asamkirche (The Asam Church). Munich also boasts some gorgeous palaces which make for wonderfully romantic wedding locations including Dachau Palace, Blutenburg Palace, and Nymphenburg Palace to name just a few.

Images courtesy of Seh-Stern Fine Art Photography

Local customs and traditions The Bavarian tradition of Hochzeitslader sees an official “Inviter” dressed in fancy clothes adorned with ribbons and flowers going from door to door to perform a rhyming invitation to the invited guests. Guests show their acceptance by pinning one of the ribbons to the Hochzeitslader hat and by offering the Inviter a drink.


In keeping with tradition, some Bavarians still choose to wear the southern German ethnic costumes known as the Dirndl and Lederhosen. The woman’s Dirndl consists of a closefitting bodice, apron and hat. The men’s Lederhosen consists of knee-length trousers made from leather worn with rustic shoes and wool socks. The addition of leather breeches, jacket and hat completes the traditional men’s Bavarian wedding outfit. 


Of course, the wearing of the Dirndl and Lederhosen is a personal preference and many modern couples choose to wear typical western style wedding gowns and suits on their wedding day. Hochzeitssuppe (Wedding Soup) made from vegetables, dumplings and meats is typically served at a traditional Bavarian wedding. After the ceremony, an old Bavarian custom is for the couple to cut a large log in half to symbolise that they can get through tough problems by working together.

Legalities
Getting married in Munich is much like anywhere else in that you will need to provide sufficient identity documents and proof of non-impediment to the marriage to the local Standesamt (Registry Office). It’s a good idea to make contact with the Standesbeamter (Registrant) as soon as possible once you have decided to marry.


You will generally be required to have all your documents translated into German which can take some time and expense. As an alternative to marrying in the registry’s own office, for an extra fee, the Standesbeamter can also perform the wedding ceremony in a number of selected locations including a nearby wedding hall, the City Hall’s own meeting rooms, or at Nymphenburg Palace. A religious ceremony can take place after the official marriage but has no legal standing.


I hope you've found this post helpful in providing information about getting married in Munich. Stay tuned for our next instalment. You never know where I'll turn the spotlight next! 

Destination: Wedding - A guide to planning the destination wedding of your dreams is available in paperback and digital formats at Amazon (UK), Amazon (USA) and from www.destination-wedding-book.com.

Destination: Wedding eBook now available on Amazon

We're very excited to announce that the eBook version of Destination: Wedding - A guide to planning the destination wedding of your dreams is now available at Amazon.

For those who prefer to read books on portable devices such as e-readers, tablets and smart phones, eBooks are the answer. At the Amazon Kindle store you can dowload the eBook version of Destination: Wedding for your Kindle device, PC, iPhone, Blackberry, iPad and for Android.

Not only is buying the eBook version of Destination: Wedding an eco-friendly option, you can also enjoy the extreme portability eBooks provide. With an eBook, you can spontaneously read the book on the train or bus on your way to work, on your lunch break or anywhere you find you have some spare time without having to physically drag a hard copy book around. 

The other advantage to an eBook is that you can quickly and easily visit websites listed in the book straight from your internet enabled device. This is great if you want to research destination wedding locations for example since the book provides up to date web links to every location listed. 

So what are you waiting for? head to Amazon and grab your eBook version of Destination: Wedding today!

Ten great ways to save money on your destination wedding

1. Tag your destination wedding on to an already planned holiday

If you’ve already planned a dream getaway, why not get married en-route or at your holiday destination? It can be expensive to travel and getting time off from work can be an extra hurdle. The cost and time effectiveness of combining a holiday with a wedding makes it the ideal solution for many couples.

2. Have your ceremony, reception and honeymoon at the same location

By combining the ceremony and reception locations you save by eliminating the often complicated logistics involved in getting everyone one venue to the next. Honeymooning at your wedding location means even more savings and many resorts will provide complimentary upgrades to honeymooning couples and/or include special celebratory items such as champagne, flowers and chocolate.

3. Negotiate group discounts

If you have a medium or large sized group attending your destination wedding, check to see if you can negotiate group discounts on travel, accommodation, activities and meals. You’ll be amazed at how much you can save yourselves and your guests by negotiating a discounted group rate. It’s quite common for the savings to be in the order of 10% to 50%.

4. Consider an alternative to a traditional wedding gown

There are so many more cost effective options to the traditional wedding gown. Gone are the days where you had to spend thousands of dollars on a dress you will wear for just a few short hours. If you’re marrying overseas, check out what the local brides wear or consider dressing down for a more casual affair. If you are getting married on the beach for example, a tropical dress rather than an elaborate white wedding gown could not only be more suitable, but cheaper too!

5. Do your own hair and makeup

Doing your own hair and makeup is a great way to save money on your destination wedding. It can also be fun especially if you enlist the help of a willing wedding guest. If the thought of doing your own hair and makeup is daunting consider having only your hair done professionally and doing your own makeup. There are loads of books and online beauty sites with step by step instructions on how to achieve perfect wedding day makeup.

6. Buy local wherever possible

By choosing local you’ll save money on everything from food to flowers. Find out which flowers are local and incorporate them into your wedding flowers. Selecting local produce for your wedding menu will not only save you money but add to the experience for you and your guests as you eat like the locals do. Locally bought souvenirs can make delightful wedding favours which can work out much cheaper particularly if you’re marrying in another country with a favourable exchange rate.  

7. Set up a destination wedding wishing well

Instead of guests dragging gifts along with them to your destination wedding, suggest instead that they donate the funds they would have spent on gifts to your destination wedding wishing well. These funds can be used to pay for elements of your destination wedding, activities or honeymoon.  Your destination wedding gift fund can include things like airfares, dinner for two, couples massage and tours. There are companies like Wedding List Co. that specialise in managing your wishing well.

8. Send e-invites

Traditional wedding invitations are no longer the only option when it comes to inviting guests to your wedding. Consider instead the e-invite that you can design on any number of available design programs. Convert the invitation to portable document format (PDF) and email to family and friends. Most brides find that guests will RSVP via email anyway – it makes sense to save on expensive invitations and postage and take advantage of email instead. 

9. Plan your destination wedding for a non-peak period

Substantial savings can be made by booking your destination wedding outside of peak tourist times. You’ll find that transport, accommodation and even activity prices are lower in non-peak times.

10. Elope!

Perhaps the biggest cost saving action you can take is to elope. Eloping (the two of you running away to be married) will reduce costs dramatically as you won’t need to host and entertain guests.

Do you have any other ideas on how to save money on a destination wedding?

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Quirky Destination Wedding Locations

The majority of couples who choose a destination wedding tend to get married in beautiful, romantic locations typically in a chapel, castle, chateau or outdoors in a garden, on a mountain, or by a lake, river or the sea.

Over the years though, I've heard of some quirkier destination wedding ideas. I thought I'd share a few of them:

For those looking for something different, you can marry aboard your own private capsule on the 135 metre high London Eye:

For the super adventurous, what better way to get your heart racing on your wedding day than a 150 metre bungy jump before sealing the deal with a kiss:

A sky dive wedding will really get your adrenaline going:

Or perhaps a an underwater wedding is more your style:

For those who just can't enough of their favorite American fast food chain, couples are deciding to tie the knot at their local McDonalds and Taco Bell stores:

I recently read about a number of airlines proposing to offer in-flight weddings (Easyjet was one of them but has since had it's proposal rejected):

If you're aware of any other interesting destination wedding locations and please let me know! I'm forever fascinated by all the different ways couples choose to declare their love.

My Hawaiian Wedding

When I planned my own destination wedding in Hawaii years ago, I didn't realise I was part of such a growing trend towards destination weddings. I just thought it would be neat to get married while on holidays in a seaside chapel on the Big Island of Hawaii. I saw a picture of this chapel and just knew it was where I wanted to get married.

Hawaii is such a beautiful place to get married, it just oozes what is referred to locally as aloha spirit. Everyone makes you feel so warmly welcomed, you can't help but feel at home.

Visually, Hawaii is breathtaking with it's gorgeous palm fringed beaches, misty rainforest-covered mountains, spectacular waterfalls and awesome volcanoes. Although Hawaii consists of eight islands, the most popular wedding destinations tend to be Oahu, Maui, Kauai and The Big Island of Hawaii.

Incorporating quintessentially Hawaiian elements such as orchid lei's, a conch shell blower and Hawaiian musicians is popular amongst many destination wedding couples. You can provide leis to your guests to wear during the ceremony and/or reception. Every day in Hawaii I couldn't resist wearing a fresh orchid or frangipani (known locally as plumaria) lei around my neck. I can still smell their sweet, tropical perfume wafting through my memories.

Image from: www.alohaislandweddings.com

There's a range of wedding planners and wedding service providers across the islands. Most of the resorts also provide wedding co-ordination services. You only have to Google "wedding in hawaii" to be inundated with myriad of wedding options in Hawaii.

My advice when planning a destination wedding in Hawaii is to go by word of mouth wherever possible. Depending on what kind (and size) of wedding you are planning, you may choose to use a wedding planner to arrange everything for you.

Since my wedding was very intimate, I arranged most things myself although my wedding celebrant helped out by putting me in touch with a reputable local hairdresser and florist. The day went off without a hitch and one of the highlights was cruising along Ali'i Drive on the way to the chapel in our rented Mustang, listening to a Hawaiian version of a Barry White tune. The drive along the Kona coast is spectacular with the sun sparkling on the ocean waves and the palm trees arching from white sand and volcanic rocks.

I would highly recommend getting married in Hawaii, it really is one of the most romantic places on earth.

If you have any questions feel free to ask!